Name |
Description |
Ed Garst (Steph’s Dad) |
Thank you all for the love and support that has carried us through this week and for joining us to celebrate Steph’s life. From the moment she was born, Steph and I shared an unbreakable bond, and throughout her life she brought joy, strength, and love to her family, friends, and teammates. Her energy, loyalty, and compassion made her unforgettable, and we are so proud to call her our daughter, sister, and friend. |
Doreen Garst (Steph’s Mom) |
She was radiant on her wedding day, glowing with joy as she married the love of her life — a final gift of happiness she shared with us. Though our hearts ache with grief, we carry her laughter, kindness, and passion every day. God truly blessed us with her, and we will forever honor her memory until we meet again. |
Eric Garst (Steph’s Brother) |
Steph was a protective, passionate, and deeply caring soul who always put others before herself. Her genuine compassion shone through in every moment, from her love of family and sports to acts of kindness for strangers in need. Though her absence is a painful reality, her spirit and selfless love will echo in the hearts of all who knew her. |
Brendan Wilcox (Steph’s Husband) |
Will shared how Stephanie’s adventurous spirit filled their life together — from a whirlwind 10-day European trip she carefully planned, to canyoneering, cornhole competitions, and countless memories where her vision and passion shone through. She loved bringing people together, often planning gatherings with intention so friendships could grow, and she always made sure those around her felt special. Will expressed his deep gratitude for the love they shared, her selflessness, and the joy of knowing her beautiful soul, now at peace. |
Debbie Seigel - Steph's Aunt and Doreen's sister |
Aunt Debbie remembered how Stephanie’s beauty and charm were unmistakable from birth, quickly wrapping everyone around her little finger. She shared joyful family memories of holidays filled with dolls, dancing, laughter, and the special bond Steph had with her loved ones. Debbie closed by saying Stephanie is now her guiding angel, whose light will continue to inspire patience, love, and faith throughout her life. |
Jason Wilcox - Brendan’s brother |
Jason shared how he first met Stephanie on the slopes, where her resilience and determination shone through as she learned to snowboard even on the toughest runs. He remembered her thoughtfulness during the wedding trip in Italy, where she went out of her way to make sure everyone felt included and cared for, even when plans fell apart. Above all, Jason expressed how much light and happiness she brought into his brother’s life, calling her his first and only love. |
Jacob Santos - Debbie Seigel Boyfriend |
Jacob offered a heartfelt prayer, asking for God’s love to surround Stephanie’s grieving family. He prayed for strength, peace, and comfort to carry them through each day, and for rest to their weary souls in trust of God’s plan. His words brought a quiet moment of faith and solace to the service. |
Alex Bowers - Friend and Sorority Little Sister |
Alex shared how Stephanie instantly stood out with her bright smile, kindness, and magnetic energy, becoming not only her sorority “big” but also her closest friend and sister at heart. From study dates and dessert adventures to long-distance visits and late-night laughs, Steph’s selflessness and joy made every moment special. Alex said she will carry Steph’s love, laughter, and spirit with her always, living with the adventure, compassion, and kindness that Steph embodied. |
Rachal Henry - Steph's Maid of Honor and Best Friend |
Rachel shared how her friendship with Steph grew from funny, awkward beginnings into a lifelong sisterhood filled with both challenges and celebrations. She described Steph as the best friend she ever had, someone who brought people together and enriched the lives of everyone around her. Rachel expressed deep gratitude to Steph’s family for raising such an extraordinary person and reminded Eric how deeply loved and cherished he always was by his sister. |
Adam Reiser - Steph's yoga friend from Tennessee |
Adam shared how he met Stephanie in Tennessee, where they became instant friends and acro-yoga partners, adventuring together through festivals, waterfalls, gardens, and hidden treasures like the Minister’s Treehouse. He described her ability to turn even ordinary moments — like buying a pool float — into magical adventures, always bringing joy, connection, and laughter. Adam said he will honor her memory by living with the same kindness, openness, and playful spirit that Stephanie carried everywhere she went. |
Eliana Wilcox - Jason Wilcox wife |
Eliana shared how Stephanie’s light and warmth brought comfort during one of the hardest years of her life, after losing her mother just before Steph’s wedding. She recalled their deep conversations, going to church together, and even praying side by side in Portuguese — a memory that showed Steph’s openness and love. Eliana said she will never forget Steph’s generosity of spirit, how she gave her best to others, and how deeply special she truly was. |
Jordan Rickeard - Local Best Friend |
Jordan remembered how Steph had a gift for connecting people, often weaving friendships seamlessly until you realized half your circle traced back to her. She shared a story from Spain, where Steph turned a grueling uphill hike into an adventure that led to the most beautiful sunset views and lasting memories. Jordan said Steph always made others feel truly seen and valued, inspiring her to be a better friend and leaving a profound impact on everyone she touched. |
Paul Reich - 1st Utah Friend |
Paul shared that Stephanie always called him her first Utah friend, and he remembered her humor, generosity, and zest for life — from forgotten paella in the oven to garage sale treasures she only ever bought as gifts for others. He recalled how she made people feel confident and cared for, even showing up with little things they mentioned in passing. Paul said the world feels darker without her light, and while it may be impossible to replace, he will honor her by cherishing the love and joy she brought into his life. |
Fasha Reed - Jupiter High School Friend |
Fasha remembered how Steph was a light in her life during a difficult time, the kind of friend whose presence never truly leaves you. She honored Steph with a heartfelt poem, describing her as the sun, a prayer, a laugh, and a hug — someone whose warmth and kindness continue to shine through all who loved her. Fasha said Steph’s spirit lives on in every act of kindness, every burst of laughter, and every bold adventure we take in her memory. |
Rachal Henry - Steph's Maid of Honor and Best Friend |
Rachel spoke again to thank Will, sharing how much peace it gave her to see the way he loved and protected Steph — the way she always deserved. She recalled how Steph had supported her through the quietest, hardest moments of grief after losing her brother, simply sitting with her when no one else was around. Rachel reminded everyone that in their own quiet moments of sorrow, Steph’s presence will still be there, sitting beside them with love. |
Kelly Tracy - Friend since 2 years old |
Steph’s very first friend Kelly shared how their bond began in Girl Scouts, summer camps, and basketball, where Steph’s fierce competitiveness and big heart always shone through. She recalled how their friendship endured through every move, picking up effortlessly even after years apart — most recently in Salt Lake City, where Steph glowed with happiness about marrying her soulmate. With both laughter (like Steph’s secret stash of milk cartons at school) and love, she said she will forever cherish the joy, kindness, and unwavering friendship Steph brought into her life. |
Rosanne Wilcox - Lamont's sister |
Roseanne shared how she quickly came to love Steph as one of her own, embracing her as part of the Wilcox family. She spoke of the deep love between Steph and Brendan and expressed faith that families are eternal, confident they will be reunited again in God’s presence. Roseanne thanked Steph’s parents for raising such a beautiful daughter and said she was grateful to welcome both Steph and her family into their own. |
Steve Garst - Steph's Uncle |
Uncle Steve recalled the joy of holding Steph as a newborn in White Plains and the many family gatherings they shared over the years. Though he hadn’t seen her often in recent years, every visit was filled with laughter and love, especially with her cousins. He said Steph’s light will always shine in their hearts, and he honored her memory with bracelets made to carry that light forward forever. |
Lori Garst - Steph's Aunt |
Aunt Lori reflected on the joy of family gatherings with Steph, from holiday celebrations to simple moments that revealed her love of desserts and her playful, warm spirit. She thanked Will for giving Steph the fairy-tale love and wedding she dreamed of, Eric for being her first best friend, and Ed and Doreen for raising such a radiant daughter who became a force of nature. Lori shared how photography connected her and Steph, and said the countless photos she left behind are treasured gems that will keep her light alive forever. |
Lea Garst - Steph's Cousin |
Lea shared childhood memories of late-night games, chasing the family dog, and always being included by Steph and Eric, even though she was the younger cousin. She recalled how Steph’s visits during difficult times meant the world to her and how every reunion felt like no time had passed. Lea said she will forever treasure Steph’s hugs, laughter, and kindness, and carry the inspiration of her love throughout her life until they meet again. |
Sarah Jayne Webster (SJ) - Friend |
Sarah Jayne shared how Steph’s joy and genuineness instantly disarmed her, teaching her to see the world with more love and less cynicism. She laughed about Steph’s famously “shouldery” hugs, which were imperfect but always heartfelt and real. Grateful for the chance to honor her, SJ said Steph deserved every bit of love being shown and will be remembered always. |
Natalie Wilcox - Brendan's sister |
Brendan’s sister shared how grateful she was to see her brother with someone as amazing as Steph, whose adventurous spirit and love lit up his life. She recalled their bond over sports, sparkly chandeliers, and even funny memories of Steph sneaking into her hot tub — moments that showed her warmth, humor, and insight into people’s hearts. She said Steph quickly felt like a best friend, and she will forever cherish every memory of their time together. |
Kalli Wilcox - Brendan's sisterd |
Kalli shared how even her young son adored Steph, remembering how excited he was to invite her to his football games. She expressed deep gratitude for the time they had together, especially the joy of celebrating Steph and Brendan’s beautiful wedding in Italy. Though their time with her was too short, Kalli said her family will forever cherish the love and memories Steph gave them. |
Lamont Wilcox - Brendan's Dad |
Brendan’s father Lamont shared a brief but heartfelt memory, reflecting on the outdoor adventures he missed sharing with Steph but emphasizing how much joy she brought to their family. Though his words were simple, they carried deep gratitude for her presence and the happiness she gave his son. He thanked everyone for honoring her life and memory. |
Heidi Wilcox - Brendan's Mom |
Heidi shared how deeply she loved Steph, describing her as thoughtful, adventurous, and full of sparkle — from chandeliers and crystal cups to heartfelt handmade gifts. She remembered their time together, from smoothies and crochet to family birthdays, and how Steph filled Brendan’s life with joy, adventure, and love. Though heartbroken at her passing, Heidi said she will forever cherish Steph’s kindness, creativity, and the light she brought into their family. |