Lawyer · Beer Salesman · Lifeguard · Beach Regular · Full-Time Talker
September 20, 1904 — August 25, 1988 · Age 83 · Merritt Island, Florida
A young man from Mount Vernon who could not seem to stop rescuing people — or pursuing degrees.
Donald Joseph Clark arrived on September 20, 1904, in Mount Vernon, New York — son of William C. Clark of New Jersey and Kathryn Reap of Pennsylvania. Solid roots for a man who would spend his life moving, talking, and occasionally rescuing people from drowning.
In his early twenties, Donald worked as the first lifeguard at Glen Island Casino — and not in the decorative sense. Family legend holds that he saved two drowning swimmers, twice, in a single day. Four rescues. One Tuesday.
Most people would retire that story for life. Donald filed it under "things that happened" and kept going.
"Four rescues. One day. He probably had lunch after."
From Glen Island, he went to Georgetown University, graduating in 1926 with a degree in foreign service. Then Fordham Law School in 1929. He practiced law briefly with his father's Mount Vernon firm before making what may be the most on-brand career pivot in family history.
He became a beer salesman and part-time in-house lawyer for the Jacob Ruppert Brewing Company. For thirty years.
Lawyer for a brewery. Three decades. No further explanation needed.
A man of steady habits — steady enough to stay at one company for thirty years while raising a family across half of Westchester County.
In 1942, at age 37, Donald registered for the WWII draft — the "Old Man's Draft," for men who'd already built lives and were being asked to step up anyway. He served in the New York State National Guard, listed his Yonkers address, his wife Dorothy as the person who'd always know where he was, and his employer as the Ruppert Brewery. Because of course.
He and Dorothy built their life in Colonial Heights, Yonkers — raising a family while Donald commuted into Manhattan each day to keep the brewery's legal affairs in order. He was the kind of grandfather who showed up, took everyone to dinner in Fort Lauderdale, and could turn any errand into an occasion.
Georgetown University — B.S. Foreign Service, 1926
Fordham Law School — Law Degree, 1929
Jacob Ruppert Brewery — Company Lawyer, 30 years
NY National Guard — WWII Service
Glen Island Casino — First Lifeguard; 4 rescues in one day
Merritt Island, FL — Beach. Every day. Non-negotiable.
The Ruppert Brewery wasn't just any company. Jacob Ruppert Jr. was the man who purchased Babe Ruth and built Yankee Stadium. Donald Clark spent thirty years as legal counsel to a New York institution — and cheered for the Yankees every chance he got. The arrangement was very satisfactory.
By the mid-1960s, Donald made the move every New Yorker eventually considers. He made it permanent.
Miami first, then Merritt Island, where Donald settled near the Banana River in what most people would call a mobile home. Donald would call it perfect — and mean it completely.
He went to the beach almost every day. Not occasionally. Not when the weather cooperated. Daily. He had a system: chair roped to the table, table spray-painted silver, crossword puzzle in hand, black-rimmed glasses held together with a rubber band.
He swam in the ocean to clear his lungs — including, reportedly, after a bout of pneumonia. This may not have been medically endorsed. It was very much Donald's call.
"In his 70s, the roof leaked.
He got up there and tarred it himself.
Hiring someone wasn't part of the plan."
He loved fishing. He went boating with his son on weekends. He drove himself down to Pompano Beach for dinner with the family — not a planned event, just how he existed. Hosting was not scheduled. It was a way of life.
His cars told their own story: a Con Edison blue Ford Cortina, then a Con Edison blue Vega station wagon, and finally a massive Buick station wagon that bore the signatures of every shopping cart in every supermarket parking lot from Miami to Merritt Island.
The carts did not win. But they left their mark.
Memories
Donald Clark lived in more places than most people visit. He carried his crossword puzzle and his scotch to every single one.
Some people live quietly. Donald Clark lived visibly — on the beach, in conversation, behind the wheel, and occasionally on the roof with a bucket of tar.
Donald didn't just talk to people — he talked to everyone. Neighbors. Strangers. People minding their own business. Conversation was not optional. It was a public service he offered freely and at length.
He never passed judgment. That made him easy to talk to, and — combined with his natural persistence — nearly impossible to escape. People didn't seem to mind.
He liked pizza pies. He made his own beef stew and called it his. He despised television commercials so thoroughly that he rigged his set so the volume would drop automatically when they came on. This was the 1970s. He built the system himself.
Everything around him eventually received a coat of silver spray paint. The beach table. The chair. Possibly other items that history has not recorded. It was his signature aesthetic: practical, silver, and entirely his own.
Passed away August 25, 1988, at age 83 in Merritt Island, Florida. Survived by his son George P. Clark of Cape Canaveral; his daughter Nancy Ann Garst of Fort Pierce; brother Robert G. Clark of Tarrytown; sister Mary Brett of Stratford, Connecticut; and seven grandchildren. He is missed in ways that are both large and small, loud and quiet — much like the man himself.
A Closing Tribute · Written with Love
Grandpas, Grandpas are lots of fun
Grandpas, Grandpas I only had one
I called him Gramp and He was unique
In His own way, Posh and Sheik
It didn't take much to make Him content
Just a few words on a postcard sent
Just a trailer to Him was a castle
The everyday errands were simply no hassle
The beach was His place we'd usually find Him there
With a spray painted table and His roped up chair
Working a crossword puzzle, Paper and Pencil in hand
With those black rimmed glasses kept on with a rubber band
Little containers packed for the beach
Little yummy treats always close to reach
Always a beer or soda to offer as a host
But it was His scotch that He enjoyed most
He liked pizza pies out or at home
And His beef stew He called his own
And then the commercials how He hated them
He rigged it so the volume would go down and up again
Gramp and His inventions and cans of spray paint
Everything was kind of silver but oh so very quaint
My Grandpa loved to talk to or at anyone
Sometimes they didn't listen, that didn't spoil His fun
He never passed judgment and that meant so much
He brought out the goodness, my life He truly touched
Oh how I'll miss my Grandpa for no one will take His place
In my heart as in heaven, for Him there's a special space
Grandpa, Grandpa, you were so much fun
Grandpa, Grandpa, you were the very best one!